You will fall in love many times in your life time.
Each time, it will make you feel a little different about falling in love.
Perhaps, as you grow older, you will becoming more and more scare of falling in love.
We all do.
But don't be.
One of the most important thing I learned in life is that don't let your experience to define you.
Let who you want to be and to become to define you.
Experience is supposed to make you smarter,
not to make you scare as you take every step and every decision.
Fall in love is a wonderful thing.
The stars you see in each other's eyes, the sweetest smile you have on your face.
Everything just feel so natural and meant to be.
So don't be scare to fall in love.
As a woman, the most important thing is NOT to fall in love CRAZILY
at the beginning.
Because when you fall in love crazily, you lose yourself completely,
and that person you are in love with, can't see who you are anymore.
How can you expect that person to fall crazily in love just as you do?
In the essence, it is NOT TO LOSE YOURSELF even when you are in love.
On occasions, you might experience,
there is a wrong time to fall in love crazily, or sometimes the wrong person.
The only way to prevent a hard painful fall, is when the timing is right.
Open your eyes, and see the person's inside.
We are a creature fill with a complexity of emotions,
and we are generally perceived as sensitive beings,
and with great sympathy and compassion.
These are the tools (if you embrace it),
one day they will be the most useful tool to help you cope better when you become a mother, a partner or a wife.
While some tools are useful at something, it has its cons too.
They are also why sometimes we are so blind to facts,
sometimes we even choose to ignore it.
Control your pounding heart, and get to know the person first.
If you can't even be friends with that person,
you can forget about falling crazily in love with that person.
Don't fill all sort of fantasy into a person you don't know,
they are a smoke screen, a fantasy you create to suit your imagination.
Consider these aspects:
They could be good looking, see if they also have a kindred heart.
They might be saying the sweetest things in the world, see if their actions say otherwise.
They are being very nice to you, see how they treat other people, especially the different kind to themselves.
Do they respect you, just as who you are?
Only time can tell if a person is right for you.
Carry yourself with self-respect, and never lower yourself, your expectations and perceptions for anyone.
Find someone who can have fun with you, who can make you laugh whole heartedly,
and who can grow older, wiser and maturer together with.
Lastly and most importantly,
don't forget you have a life to live and a future you are longing for too.
Don't give up the life you want because of the person you fall in love with.
That person is supposed to have the same aspects, value and expectations in life just like you do.
