In our life, as you grow older and older,
you'll find yourself often a victim of some sort.

A victim of a heart breaker,
A victim of mischief,
A victim of an accident,
A victim of deceit, etc.

The list could go on forever.

The thing is, EVERYONE has been a victim of some sort.

We all got hurt some where, in different parts of our lives.
The key is, don't sulk yourself into the hurtfulness for eternity.

Get upset about it, have a good cry.
Then use your energy to do something about it.
Turn the unfortunate into something that might be meaningful,
or even useful to other people.

It is important that we don't lose ourselves,
and don't let things to change what you can do.

Take it in as an experience, be vigilant, and stay positive!
A smile and a spirit to take on any challenge is the best insult to misery.
Tomorrow is another day!

You'll love what you can do for yourself,
and you'll be proud of yourself to have the ability to pull yourself up,
and refuse to be a victim forever.

Be a winner for yourself. Not for anyone.

And no matter what, your family will always love!


xxx